On one of my many visits to Thailand, I came across an unforgettable scene—a group of young novice monks, their bright orange robes vivid against the early morning light, standing in a quiet line. Each boy rested his hand on the shoulder of the one in front of him, forming a chain of gentle connection. In that moment, I saw more than just a daily routine—I saw discipline, unity, and tradition at work.
The Role of Novice Monks in Thailand
In Thailand, it’s common for boys to spend time in a monastery, often during school holidays. These young monks, known as samanera, can be as young as seven or eight years old. Some stay for only a few weeks or months, while others continue for years. This experience is not only a rite of passage but also an opportunity to gain merit, learn Buddhist teachings, and explore a life of simplicity.
At age 20, a novice monk may choose to be fully ordained as a bhikkhu (adult monk), whether for a short term or for life. This tradition is deeply woven into Thai culture, and families take pride in seeing their sons participate in it.
More Than Religious Training
For these boys, monastery life means waking early, practicing meditation, chanting, and helping with daily tasks. They learn patience, humility, and self-discipline—qualities that extend far beyond the temple walls. While their lives are guided by strict routines, moments of youthful energy and curiosity still shine through, reminding us that they are, after all, still children.
The Power of Small Gestures
What struck me most during my encounter wasn’t the grandeur of the temple or the precision of the line—it was the simple act of each boy’s hand resting on the one in front. It was a gesture of guidance, trust, and connection. Their expressions told a story: curiosity, patience, and perhaps a hint of mischief—all part of growing up, even in robes.
Lessons for Us All
Over the years, I’ve come to admire the cultural traditions that shape life in Thailand. Watching these young monks reminded me of the importance of pausing, learning, and living with intention. Whether in a temple, at work, or in daily life, there’s value in taking the time to cultivate discipline, compassion, and connection.
